
This is not difficult, doesn't cost a lot of money: have everyone at home (or those you see regularly, this can include friends with kids) make a list of ideas. (Here are some of Patricia's.)Then start doing them before the next whine or argument. Do this tonight.
ciao-meow/xo
PS: When in doubt, throw an art party. Here is the GG online education resources label (includes children's art & literature sites).
(photograph of the adorable Aurora by Morillo)